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Originally Posted by Nemo39122
I still don't understand why this is such a huge issue for some people... 
If you're dating a man, you're with him and that's all that matters. If you're dating a woman, you're with her and that's all that matters. People make it so complicated but it really isn't.
Bi = the person you date might be female, or the person you date might be male. That's all it means... |
Nemo, I'm glad that it's such a black-n-white issue for you. But it isn't for everyone. It's human nature to be insecure about the things/people we love most. We have fears of losing them.
Try to see it from someone else eyes. You're in a rough patch (and every couple has them). Your significant other has a VERY close relationship with someone who he/she once loved. Now throw into the picture the extra fact that he/she has not had a romantic relationship with someone of that sex for many years but has always had raging fantasies about that. These fantasies have even been encouraged and shared by you...
The rough times, the close friendship, the history and the perceived opportunity to make real those sexual fantasies that have only been pretend for so long are ganging up on your insecurities. Then add the fact that your significant other has clinical depression and no appetite for sex with you...
Please, tell me again that it shouldn't be such a big issue because I reaaaaaallllllyyyy need to hear it right now.
