My mother's birthday is also on mother's day. Really cannot figure out what to do. If I don't go, she will bad mouth me to EVERYONE and this is a small town. If I do go, she will think it "proves" that she was right all along and my sister and brother in law didn't do anything wrong, and she shouldn't have to call me or be civil to me. [I know that's how her brain works.] No matter what I do, it's going to be wrong somehow.