hey lost....

I have been following your posts. I had a T dump me after a hospitalization once. I tried to go back to him a year later but he wouldn't take me unless I was in dbt. He was under the assumption I suffered from Borderline Personality Disorder. I have since been tested and proven to be something else though. It was very painful, but I made it through and am in the process of forming an attachment to current T (whom I have been with for 2 years). Yes, it has taken a very long time and several t's for me to form a bond, but it happened.

I think a T that forces a second t onto his/her client is a T that doesn't want to be too bothered by attachment and who doesn't want to be available much. (they want t2 to handle the dirty work). That's just my opinion though.