I am sorry ((((OE)))) I am just coming across your post now. I wish there was something I could say or do to help ease your suffering.
I hate what the legal system has turned into, and civil litigation is out of control...the lawyers are horrible and will stop at nothing. In these types of matters, especially where there are complex damages, the lawyers drag it out forever.
It is incredibly stressful and a miserable experience to have to go through.
Just the little bit that you've shared, I suspect the damages are enormous on many levels; both compensatory and punitive and there are several parties involved. I just cannot imagine...I know you just want for it to be over already! (that is what they are doing to you. they are pushing you to the brink hoping you will cave)
It has to be impossible to move on and heal considering you have to relive all of this pain over and over, and then with all of the visual reminders... anyone would be pushed to their limit.
I am so glad you are coming here to share and vent. You are in my heart and thoughts and I send you big hugs (sorry I can't be there to help you get through this).
We are here for you. I am so sorry for your pain and suffering. You are such a lovely person. Nobody deserves to be put through hell like this - at all.
Please take care of you. Again, keep posting here and sharing.