Sadly, I feel the same way. Why do I pay this person cash every week to sit there and stare at me in this TOTALLY one sided relationship? It will never go anywhere. What is the purpose? I have friends that empathize/sympathize. They love me. But for some reason I am " attached to this T". Why does that happen? Why do they want us to get attached? it seems unethical. After this week in therapy I am thinking it is all ********! All of it. And i have not posted much but I feel strongly about this. Arghhhh! Driving me c razy and I want to be sosososo far past this.