(((((((Lexicon))))))wow my heart is feeling your fear right now!!! I would just tell him NO and since he knows of the issues I for the life of me can not understand why he would push...There must be somewhere else to vacation? (if that is what that is suppose to be) I am sorry I don't know you well and it's hard to know what to say except for what is in my heart. I do hope that this all works out for , there is absolutely no reason why you should have to do this )that I can understand). Please take care and know that you have friends here who will care. Linda