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Originally Posted by jenluv
Does it work to not ask for things so you don't have to deal with the rejection? From T, primarily.
I always seem to take a deep breath and dive in and ask for what I want. It doesn't work. I can only think of one time when I got what I asked T for.
So it's an honest question, because I'm not done with T yet but I don't want to be so effing raw and rejected anymore either. Does it really work to not ask for what you want? Or does the not asking create worse problems of its own?
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Jenluv,
I am sorry to tell you that you should not ask for what you want from t and in fact you should not put anything extraordinary into that relationship. I would advise you to invest in something that can be returned. Asking my old t for things or crying over what I couldn't have broke the whole relationship. If I would have known that would happen I would have cut my tongue out like an avox.
I know you want to hear the flip side of this, Jenluv, you can do it, it will be alright but don't believe those people, it does not work.
Just keeping it real and trying to save you some heartbreak.