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Each person walks down the road of sexuality a little differently and what they want when they get there can be nothing like what other people consider normal. The thoughts that allow you to masturbate are what you should be looking for in another in a sexual partner. Will they play the way you need them to?
Trust is huge here. You need trust the person who you share your needs with, will not burn you. But because he or she meets your needs, you need to be willing to help them out. In a perfect world you will meet someone in person who you can reach that level of trust with, but the world if far from perfect. People can be found online to just have sex with that will meet you needs in bed, but beyond wanting to have sex, you may have nothing in common. Do you want to give something you have kept personal for 24 years to just anybody?
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