I'm so sorry this happened to your T and to you. My T was attacked in a hospital setting a year ago. He was back to work in a week but still badly bruised. When I looked in to his face,I cried. I sobbed, actually.
I always felt he could take care of himself, then this happened.
T's really do have a good support system as I found out.
I understand how hard it is to seperate yourself from your T's feelings. It won't be of any help to her if you are overly upset. (Said the person who freaked out looking at her T! )
She'll be all right. I hope you will also.