We went for couples therapy to uncouple, not to stay in the marriage. T left that possibility open, but both of us wanted out of the marriage. The couples therapy we did with my T was very successful. We separated without animosity, developed communication skills that have served us well, have a great co-parenting relationship, and each have a big role in our children's lives. No better uncoupling than that! Thank you, T. You were a life saver.