It is kind of magical thinking to think you have the power to keep your T safe. That isn't in your power, nor is it at all your responsibility. You say things like you "urged her to take as much time away as she needed" and "I was sort of pushing her to do" which appears like you are trying to care-take your therapist. That is not your role or your responsibility. T's have strong self-care skills and generally have strong support systems, and their patients need to stay their patients.

Try to step back and let her handle her personal life personally. As much as I know you care and worry about her, she will be able to find ways to work through what has happened on her own.