i have only been brave enough and able to ask for one thing one time and it was to have my appointment moved to a different day.it was horrible I'm just not good at risking being told no.i had to be in a very bad way to even consider asking anything. she went out of her way to do that for me. i still feel guilty about it because i have never told her the reason i asked because i think she would change her mind. it will be a long time before i can ask for anything else i don't want to push my luck.

i think your T is messing up badly if he isn't responding to even basic scheduling requests .at the very leas he should be able to give you some ways of coping if he has no openings.is there some other reasons that you stay with this T