That is so true, so very true. Besides the loss of family members, 911 changed things even more, with me.
From a sad experience(s) sometimes valuable things are learned, and I have found even strangers at shops,on the street, and other public places more friendly and eager to chat compared to the times before the tragedy of 911.
I am very sorry for you and his family of this terrible loss, I send y'all wishes and prayers for healing,love, and may good memories,good times help soften the harshness of losing someone dear.
Love to you and yours,
Roe

((((((((( bebop ))))))))))))))))