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Originally Posted by granite1
I think your T is messing up badly if he isn't responding to even basic scheduling requests .at the very leas he should be able to give you some ways of coping if he has no openings.is there some other reasons that you stay with this T
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Yeah, attachment. And I'm watching all of my issues play out with him (see "My mother is a 32 year old man" post). They don't play out with T2 as I haven't developed any attachment to him yet -- but thank God for T2 or I'd be completely unglued.
I told T1 in session that I was up **** creek without a paddle. He said, "But you're swimming." I said, "Yeah, thanks for cheering me on. But I need someone to get in here with me. You're not in here with me. Either that or you're wearing a **** brown colored wetsuit and are completely camouflaged."