If you're a big whiny needy baby, then I'm a big whiny needy baby times 75 - the approximate number of times since February that I've emailed my T!

Like you said, T gave you his email, so it's his responsibility to create boundaries that work for him. If he didn't want you to have his email, he shouldn't have given it to you, but notice the agency in this sentence: HE. At the same time, it's your responsibility to learn to accept the support, care, and help from your T. I struggled mightily with this one...