I think that Ts that LEAD clients to sexually oriented topics, if they are not raised by the clients or welcomed, are generally out of line. I think if a client BRINGS it, then it is on the table, but if not, then I tend to be CREEPED by Ts who do this.

Am I missing something..or did your T say "you must have a great sex life" out of the blue?? Perhaps I did not read correctly?

Maybe I have problems that aren't being resolved orsomething but I found my cold distant Ts insistence on "going there" to be highly inappropriate, given the distance that HE insisted in maintaining.

It just feels creepy when a T goes there if it's not the client's main concern, especially when it is a male T and a female T.

Again, I may be out of line here....

MCL