So this is what I'm reading into it (and I'll admit that I'm probably reading into it).

In the first email when I ask if I can have some of our marriage t as individual t because of the scary trauma work I've been doing with T2 he thinks we may go over an hour. So Mr. Boundaries makes it oh so clear that we stop at 10. Then, when he realizes his mistake in the appointment time he "finds" more time, no longer has a firm boundary of one hour, and because the original plan was 2 hours he can now do 2 hours. Until 11. But if that hadn't been the original plan that he messed up on then he still would have had to stop promptly at 10 -- and would have told me that very clearly and firmly, just like he did -- and would have made no accommodation (as is his pattern) for me because of my extra "need" to process some of the trauma crap with him.

But the fact remains that he will not make accommodations for me -- at all -- for any of the ebbs and flows of my therapy.