((((((desirae))))))) what a mess that you find yourself in... Do you realize though that that baby is not really safe, the day will come when she can't find a sitter and the child will be left alone or the party will be at her house.. I saw this myself with my daughter.. she still hasn't learned any of life's lessons and that saddens me to no end. I don't talk with her much at all as she does nothing but lie time after time. It breaks my heart because I know at this point she has a three yr old that sees and knows too much already. It is only a matter of time before that child is taken away from her.

Please get your sister some help!!!! Ignore her putdowns, it is just her way of making herself feel better... please if not for her but for the innocent child being left who knows where ( you may know for now, but what about tomorrow) I am sorry that this trouble is in your life... I wish I had more comforting words. But I do offer an ear and a warm hug whenever you need it... Linda