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Originally Posted by sweepy62
thanks cresent i just felt a rush of abandoment i know she told me not to jump to any conclusions and she knew i would anyway she said she is not bored of me but i been spiriling into depression and i guess i didnt take it well
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Well.. I really do get the abandonment issues! I hope my story helped you see that even after four years with my therapist, where I've achieved a great deal of stability, the most innocuous statement by my therapist can throw me into a tailspin. The difference now is that I have learned over time that it works out great to let her know right away.. because she can quickly resolve it for me, which prevents me from slipping too deep into the pit.
But in the meantime - - please have faith that when you talk to her again, you will find out that she has no intention of abandoning you.