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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Although having experienced different issues I empathize greatly with what you are going through. I'm going to pm you the name of a book that helped me greatly while having to deal with legal issues. The legal abuse syndrome can only add frustration and insult to injury. It's not an attack on the system but a way to help cope with it. I found it very helpful and enlightening. Maybe it might help?
Goodnight!