I heartily disagree that 11 year old's should be wearing padded bra. The other day, my 11 year old stepdaughter visited with noticeably larger breasts. I asked if she was wearing a padded bra and she said yes, her Granny (my mother-in-law) had bought it for her. I was shocked!!!! I mentioned it to hubby who made mention of it to his Mom but it was like water off a ducks back. Same as make-up. My stepdaughter keeps wearing loads of make up for photo shoots and then poses provocatively. Her mother encourages it. I just can't stand it.