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Originally Posted by skysblue
I wonder why we have such shame and embarrassment when we have needs.
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Because someone shamed and embarrassed us when we wanted our needs met while growing up? This can be done directly or indirectly. Most likely from a dysfunctional family where only one member was allowed to get their needs met and everyone else in the family catered to their needs as the expense of their own.
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