People shut down because of what is going on with them in that moment. It is about them, not about the T. To get frustrated over a client doing something so natural for people with issues just doesn't make sense to me. Does he think that you are doing this on purpose to make him mad? Does he think that it is a power play? I would suggest discussing this with him. What does your shutting down mean to him?
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