I stole this from Doogie's thread where he posted a link to a Therapist's blog that I think talked about how a T will inevitablt do something that
causes a rupture and how its part of the process and has to happen to
strengthen the intimacy in the relationship...this part stuck out to me....

"If I don’t, we probably aren’t connecting. We aren’t approaching the realm of intimacy."

It made me think.....how do therapists "go to this realm"....this deep, emotional connection thing that is always talked about.......how do they do that with client after client, session after session.

My capacity for intimacy is sooo small. How do they do that?