Thread: Intimacy
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Old May 10, 2012, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
That's what we're in therapy to find out and learn

I don't think your capacity is small, struggling, just your current knowledge. Or, if you prefer, it can grow, it's not a cast iron box, more a skin.

Are you saying that everyone has the potential to be able to have that kind of intimacy with everyone they come in contact with? ahhhhh that sounds exhausting! I think i just constantly wonder.....how are they not falling asleep after the first cleint of the day? I dont doubt that T's a caring, connection, etc with clients is fake....i think its very much real and thats how im so puzzled by it....HOW ON EARTH do they find the emotional energy to do that all day everyday!

I like what you said about it being a skin.....im gonna file that in my mental file cabinet under I for Important