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Old May 10, 2012, 11:03 AM
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Maybe think of how much of a better mood he'll be in when he is with you? My husband went to the racetrack leaving me to do his chores but when I explored it with him, I discovered his back was in pain and he was hoping to distract himself. I love him and don't want him in pain and there is no reason I had to do the dishes (I did because it hurt him to bend over and, again, I wanted him to feel better). Next time, text him back that he MUST have something fun or interesting to report from his bike ride or he can't come home

You have to stay with the dogs? I wouldn't want dogs like that; you would not be able to go for a bike ride, the two of you together? Everyone staying home with the dogs does not sound like what I would want, for me or him!
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