Unresolved personal tribulations, e.g. wants, needs, desires, childhood trauma. Cacophony tempests of FEAR, percieved personal vulnerabilities, rejection, betrayl, indifference and apathy. Confiding in others for your emotional health, it's a hell of a lot easier for someone other than ourselves to relieve our own weighty burden. Hell, I could be totally wrong, but the Holy Grail is very near.

"What comes around, goes around"