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This irritated me very very much. I feel that my T is only judging this girl based on the fact of what she does. I feel that she is going along with the image of everyone who does that being hooked on heroine or crack and being very trashy and filthy. This girl isn't like that, I've gotten a deeper understanding of her and found traits about her that I like. Our relationship is changing and I want to see where it goes.
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My question... is this girl hooked on heroine or crack? Is that part of this issue or just an example.
If this girl is on drugs, then she doesn't need to be in a romantic relationship, she needs to get help to get clean. It is good to be a friend and support her toward that goal, but when you love someone it is really easy to get sucked down into what they are doing. Even if you don't actually do the drugs yourself, you can get caught up in it by doing things that enable her.
This is more than a question of being hurt emotionally, but also possibly being hurt physically, financially, and so on. That's what concerns me.
Also I agree with lido78... it's not about "judging" necessarily, but being cautious. Sometimes we are blinded by our own emotions...
