So I was wondering does anyone else feel guilty for taking up so much of T's personal time with emails? I mean T and I email a bunch several times a day. Sometimes using it as a messenger, yet other times like full on conversations...bordering sessions. I felt guilty about this and brought it up to T, as I told him I always want a response, i felt like i should pay him for that time. I mean I would expect to be paid for working on my free time, not all the time or within reason...mind you. But latley I have been pushing it with my whole relationship debacle. So yesterday he made a few suggestions, 1. unlimited email all week, with answers = 1 session and then 1 in person weekly OR 2 in person with limited email with answers throughout the week. I also will be seeing him once a week for Marriage counseling.