It sounds like this t is not matching your needs. Have you looked into the different types of therapy and picked out any that seem like what you might be looking for? Some are less directive and some are more. Some sects of therapy believe in more disclosure, some less, etc. Gather some questions and some requirements you have for what you need the therapist to be like (the client gets to pick the kind of therapist that will help them) and interview some for the job..