Well, it depends on what you feel comfortable with. I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I would do if it was me. I'd just dump him. If he contacts me, I'd simply say not to contact me again. You really don't owe him much more than "I'm not interested." He might make a half-hearted attempt to keep you with him, if he doesn't already have someone else waiting in the wings. But make no mistake, he doesn't care about you, and he will simply move on until he finds someone willing to put out and shut up, so he can have his cake and eat it too. By asking you to be exclusive, he means he wants YOU to be exclusive with HIM, while he does what he wants.

My husband and I both took down our profiles when we knew it was going to work between us. The fact that his is still up tells me you mean nothing to him. I've been down that road myself. When a man you're having sex with says, "I keep my options open," the translation is, "I'm having sex with other women too, and if you problem with that, I'm going to call you a jealous, possessive, psycho b--ch." At least, that was my experience.

And of course, keep looking until you find your guy. IMO this one isn't him.