we are curious-does anyone else ever just stay unhappy because they dont feel like doing anything to change it? and this next part is speaking ONLY for us and our own experiences,so please know it is not directed at anyone else
sometimes,although not very often,we will just stay wallowing in our own self-pity because the thought of actually pushing ourselves to motivate or do something to counter or alleviate the sadness,depression or unhappiness is too much of an effort. sometimes we get angry when others suggest,helpfully,that maybe doing such and such will help. sometimes we just prefer to stay stuck. and yet we usually end up asking ourselves-whats the payoff? will we get more attention-negative or otherwise? will we get more sympathy? more ego stroking? we are taking a chance and being totally open here so please,no attacking. thanks and looking forward to reading the replies♥