after thinking about it some more (and counting to 30 ), i realized that the hugs aren't as long as i feel like they are. maybe more like 10-15 seconds. anyway, i guess it's not that big of a deal, but it's making me feel weird right now for some reason.

thanks for your reply, geez. i don't think i'm feeling like she wants something from me in return, but i do feel pressure. i don't think i realized that before. plus, there's now a part of me that feels like i'm doing something wrong.