I've seen my old T at (the grocery store a few times, the gym many times, town fair, library and she drove past me on a couple of different occasions when I was out for a run. I've driven past her or have seen her driving around town. I kind of look for her car and I'm a little bit embarrassed about that. I find comfort mixed in with a tiny bit of sadness when I see her from afar. I know she's still around and she told me her door is always open. I haven't been seeing her around so much lately and though I do miss her I'm ok with that :-)

My marriage T I've seen twice in public. Once at the gym and we smiled at one another. Another time when I was out getting some unmentionables at the local corner store I saw her (embarrassing but thankfully she didn't see me).

My new T I've only seen outside of the office 1x. That happened yesterday when we both pulled into the parking lot at the same time as I'm her first appointment of the day. We were both running a little bit late. We parked next to one another and we both said hi and she said what a nice day. I'm ok with that and don't feel weird about it because I don't feel really 'attached' to the new T. I'm in my: 'don't get to close' I'm very guarded but I want to be attached to you at the same time phase :-)