I'm pretty much here for the same reason. I want to kill my sister. She is a narcisstic ***** and if it isn't about her then she wants nothing to do with it or anyone else. My parent's 50th anniversary is coming up and my sister said it was too much of a "hassle" to try to get everyone together to celebrate. She told my parents that it would be a "circus" trying to get all the kids and grandkids together on the same day and maybe we should just "do our own thing". What a *****. My mother cried for two days. So of course I am not only the scapegoat, but also the "fix it" and make it perfect person. My mother called me and asked me what I had told my sister to upset her so much. **** that. My sister just couldn't be bothered planning anything. It wasn't about her, or for her, and it was a bother. Plus she didn't want to spend a penny. So because I 'm the sick crazy one (I have depression) my sister told her that I was unable to help plan and it was just "too much" for my sister to do on her own. So my mother called and said I was being selfish for not even trying to help put something together. How in the hell is this all getting blamed on me? Because EVERYTHING that goes wrong in this family gets blamed on me, that's why !!! My sister is perfect and can do no wrong and my baby brother is the prince and wouldn't even be expected to chip in and pay for anything. So not only are my parents not having any kind of celebration, but it all got blamed on me and I wasn't even involved !! I hate them all and wish I could just move to another planet and let them all just deal with each other. I'd love to see who they blame their problems on if I wasn't around. really crappy day