So, just one question...regardless of what others think, do you want to date and/or have a boyfriend? It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or says, you just need to determine exactly what you do want. And there is no judgement either way. If you do not want one, then that's fine...you may change your mind later on or you may not. If you do want one, then you might consider how you present yourself versus who you really are inside. If they match up and this is who you are then there really is not much to change unless you want to do so for yourself. If they do not match up, then you might want to consider some adjustments. For example, if you feel good on a paritcular day but everyone seems to think you're in a grumpy mood, then you might want to examine why they think what they think. No need to be fake or anything but if you feel good, then by all means show it and smile.

Do the things that you like to do and this will fill your time with interesting experiences. If you would like a boyfriend (I kind of think you really do but have just had a bad time of it so far), you're more likely to find one that matches up with you when you're out enjoying yourself (this does not mean bars/places to meet guys...just whatever activities makes you happy)....