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May 11, 2012, 08:36 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Wesley -- I know you're worried and you're HURT. I can hear it in your words.  But the first thing you must realize is this has nothing to do with YOU. You are NOT the cause of this and both of your parents LOVE you very much!!!
Sometimes when people get married, things happen and the communication between them goes awry. Why that happens, who knows? Perhaps it's because both parents are working, and the time spent together is too little. Both are tired when they get home, and they just don't allow enough time together anymore. Then the marriage gets stale, and one or the other partner looks for "excitement" elsewhere. YES, it's WRONG -- but people make mistakes all the time. It doesn't mean that this cannot be fixed!!!
This issues isnt' for YOU to fix. This is between your Mom and Dad. You shouldn't have to worry about this. YOUR job is to go to school, get good grades, etc. Do NOT let this interfere with your education!!! That would be a crime.  Whatever happens is between Mom & Dad. It's up to THEM to fix this. PLEASE -- try not to worry about it anymore. There is NOTHING you can do about it anyway -- and worrying about it doesn't work. 
God bless you Wesley -- I'll keep you in my prayers. Please update us as to what happens -- and how you're feeling from time to time, WILL YOU? We'll be here whenever you need us. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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