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May 11, 2012, 09:01 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ You are definitely in a tough situation. I understand how you feel, and I'm sorry. 
You two definitely need couples counseling. I would insist on it!! It sounds like you two don't know HOW to communicate. Many couples don't. A counselor can help you with that, and show you how to be more open and honest. PLUS -- he's got to be more trustworthy -- right now you have no trust in him, and he doesn't seem to be trying to earn your trust BACK. He's GOT to do that before you can even begin to trust him again. What he did was the lowest of low -- sleeping with your SISTER??? That's disgusting.  And your SISTER isn't much better for betraying you!!
Please get some counseling for both of you --and if he isn't willing to go, then you'll know he doesn't want to work on the relationship. THEN you'll have to find somewhere to go. Even a shelter would be better than staying with HIM.
I wish you the very best. God bless and please keep us posted. Hugs, Lee
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