View Single Post
 
Old May 11, 2012, 09:31 PM
Leed's Avatar
Leed Leed is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
Being a teenager IS a confusing time. It is for EVERY teenager, hon. So you're not the only one. And why do you describe your feelings as "nasty & gross?" They aren't nasty & gross! Your feelings are YOURS and they are natural. If you are attracted to females, then that's how you were born and it's NATURAL. There is NOTHING gross about it. You shouldn't be ashamed of it. YOU are not nasty and YOU are not gross! You are a perfectly NORMAL, pretty, intelligent, worthy, special person who is deserving to be loved and cared for!!!

Then again, you MIGHT be just confused -- or you might be bi-sexual too. Time will tell. I don't know how old you are -- but you have time to work these things out yourself. There is NO HURRY. When you are more secure in yourself, you'll know exactly how you feel. And you CAN discuss these things with your parents -- they will LOVE YOU JUST THE SAME regardless of what you tell them -- I guarantee you!!!! You are their child -- they adore you!!

So try not to worry so much about this. Things WILL fall into place. Just take life a day at a time -- that's all we're given anyway, right? Have fun -- go to school -- and don't worry! Worrying doesn't change anything anyway. God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
Lovehurtacceptance