Hmm never blame your looks or personality because you can't find your soulmate. You are unique and that's what makes you special, believe in yourself. Soulmates are hard to find and mostly happen by chance. To be able to find or attract your soulmate, must first learn what soulmate really means. I found mine by pure accident, and I have to say it won't be a fairy tale. Every relationship will need work. Once you do find them you will know. As mentioned in mythologies and even the concept of eve being made from Adam proves that soulmates do exist. In Greek mythology humans used to have 4 legs,arms, and eyes. Until Zeus feared they would take his place so he split them in two to wonder endlessly around the world in search for each other. The connection, you will know instantly, for it's like you guys already known each other, similar, understandings, and simply just feeling complete. My suggestion is to wait for the right one cause when you do find your one, do whatever it takes not to let go. I wish Ive waited for my situation is really not great. I hope you the best!