I totally agree with gma45! You don't need that at all. And don't worry girl you're not butting in at all! We are all here trying to give advice. It just sounds like she is beating herself up about something, and I am just wondering what is all. Gothgirl, don't feel like you did anything wrong. You didn't. He was trying to make you feel guilty, and the worst thing in the world is to make him succeed! No need to make excuses for him or make yourself feel bad, he is totally not worth it