Hey drowning, I just wanted to let you know that a lot of us have been where you are, in one way or another.

A relationship without passion isn't fair to either person. And as far as the other man, you created a baby with him, you will never forget him, but the pain, hurt and rejection will fade with time.

Two of the most important things my Mom taught me in life: don't settle for less than you know you deserve and if you're not happy, fix it. Take control of your happiness, and realize that you deserve the whole nine yards; love, passion, trust, acceptance and friendship.

Feel free to message me any time you need to vent.

wounded1