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May 12, 2012, 05:22 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Well, obviously, you have been unhappy in your relationship cause you don't "accidently" meet someone online -- you're LOOKING for people to meet.  Lets be honest here. LOL It's too bad you've spent so long with this person, only to end up unhappy.
BUT how feasible is it to actually meet this soulmate in the UK?? Do you think you will really be able to swing it? Are either of you willing to pick up and move to another country for good? It MIGHT be giving up citizenship (unless you can retain dual citizenship, I don't know). How important IS citizenship to both of you? And what about parents/family? Would either of you be willing to leave all your family & friends? It's mighty expensive to travel back & forth to visit.  What about emergencies? There's all kinds of things to consider.
I'm NOT saying you should stay in your unhappy relationship. You deserve to be happy. But I'm saying you had better think long and hard before you either pick up and go to the UK to live or ask him to come here. It could cause LOTS of big problems in the long-run. But you two will have to figure that out. I wish you the very best in whatever you decide.
Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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