I'm attractive, I'm not afraid to admit it.

(Ok, I know this is gonna ruffle some feathers because many people dislike a woman who seems conceited.)

But I have found that men find me attractive, yet do not approach me as often as women who are less attractive. I take a lot of time getting my hair the right shade of blonde, my nails right, certain makeup, clothes, etc...
so am I trying too hard to look good?

Obviously there is the issue of personality and all that, but do you think there is a such thing as being overly attractive?
and does that distract a potential date from seeing past your looks?
Does being very attractive serve as a disadvantage? and why?

I am bit OCD about the way I look so this is hard for me, but would I have more success in relationships if i toned it down a bit?