Thanks you for your kind replies.I now know that I have to be super strong.I live a beautiful life with my caring husband. I just feel that after living a life under abusive narcissistic mother and having suffered so much , I have broke away for my sanity, there will always be lots of people who will continue to judge me and have lots of opinions who are around. I have to be strong and draw boundaries and not even allow for this conversation to come up when I meet this people on the street.Its easier said, as the boundaries are also been drawn between my 2 sisters...only family left. How sad.Of course life could be worst. So I will continue my work in charity and tick off the boxes on my long list of things in order to have a rich and meaningful life.
Thanks everyone