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Originally Posted by Miss Laura
Hey guys,
Thank you!
I have stopped crying and now I just feel empty. I wish I could get over it and forget it. Sometimes I wonder ehy people like me. I try not to let people get close to me as I always end up either getting hurt or hurting someone. I have had failed relationships my whole adult life. When I was younger I had no issues with friends. Now its a nightmare.
I feel so lonely and feel there is no place safe unless its my bed!
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If I may just add...it's NOT okay when your friend cancels on you frequently! This is very disrespectful. I'm not the best example of a steadfast friend since I tend to get anxious and flake out on plans and responsibilities. But barring any of that (and even with that) it's not okay. I think you should tell your friend how you feel. I would stick with saying things like, "When we make plans I look forward to spending time with you , and then when the plans are canceled I feel ______." You know? Avoid arguing or engaging in either of you getting defensive. Just let her know how you feel, even if it means you have to text it back to her the next time she cancels.
Maybe she doesn't know it bothers you like it does. And if she does... then it's time to find a new friend!
