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Originally Posted by KazzaX
He might look textbook normal on the outside but just remember: he is probably a broken mess inside like the rest of us. Most people like that are. They overdo the "normal" to cover up their brokenness. Nothing to be jealous about there!  |
You know, I really think that's true. I once had a colleague who had this cheerleader-type personality that really annoyed me (it annoys me because if someone only has one emotion day in and day out and that emotion is always happy-happy-happy it comes off as really insincere to me). She was always impeccably dressed and always super-professional all the time, never let her hair down so-to-speak. Anyway one day I noticed she had cutting scars all over her arms. After that I didn't hate her so much. All her perfection was just a facade. She had some real pain in her life at some point. I felt sorry for her. Still couldn't be around her very long but I didn't hate her anymore.