boundaries in the therapeutic relationship has been an issue for me. often there is a very thin line between between the activity being ok and not ok. In one of my previous experiences in therapy I did go out to eat with the therapist as well as go to other places in the area. My current therapist - nope. Only I followed her to this health club that might work for me to join that she knows how to get to that is close to her office. I wasn't sure how to get to it. Following her was difficult and had a delayed emotional reaction to it. We also went in and got some info for me to look over. I am kinda leery of doing more stuff like that cause I don't want a repeat of that other therapeutic relationship to happen now with my current therapist. However I still wish that she was my mom and then I could be closer to her because of that.