Thread: Boundaries.............
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Old May 13, 2012, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted by karebear1 View Post
Oh no! It's already 2 to 1...... I can't be the only one.

they really make you feel safe? All they do for me is make me feel like the person that set the boundaries doesn't want me around so they set up their so called boundaries to keep me away.
karebear - i have felt that way, esp. about the hugs things. i don't like that boundary and sometimes it does feel like it's personal to me. a part of me really wants a hug. but i do see how her boundary keeps me (and her) safe. so that one is kinda mixed. but my hope is that she can help me find someone who will be happy to give me the hugs i want and need.

you aren't the only one.
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