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Originally Posted by Hope-Full
I'm mixed.
In therapy, with my T? I love the boundaries. They make me feel safe and secure.
With my family? When I have to be the one setting and holding the boundaries? I hate em. Too much work, especially considering my family tramples the boundaries on a regular basis, and I keep having to rebuild them.
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This is exactly how I feel. The other thing I like about boundaries in T is that I know what they are and I don't have to keep guessing and trying to figure them out on my own.
With family...I keep trying to set boundaries and they keep getting trampled, and that's really where I need boundaries the most.